The Bizarre Question That Could Change Your Life

What if I asked you a bizarre question that could change your life?

Intrigued?

Well, good. That would just reassure you that you’re ready for a change-;)

A new way of waking up every day.

A new sense of self.

A healthier, happier, more confident you.

 

Bottom line: you’re ready for something to shake you up.

But, you don’t know where to start…

In fact, you’re not even 100% sure what you want to change, but you are 100% sure that you want a change.

Thing is, I don’t believe you’re not sure on what you want to change.

The likely story is that deep down inside, you know exactly what you want and need to change. You just haven’t allowed yourself to go there because it’s:

 

Too scary

 

Too overwhelming

 

Or, just too much

 

And all of that is OK.

But, the thing (the big thing) is that if you block off that “knowing” part of you, the “heart” part of you, you’ll have a pretty hard time being guided to the place where you really want to be.

Ultimately, you’ll have a hard time making that change you’re sooo itching for.

It doesn’t have to be hard, though. One question can help you get there.

So, let me ask you…

 

If a genie granted you 3 wishes that would undoubtedly come true, what would they be???

Pause…

Think…

Breathe…

Reflect…

What would your 3 wishes be?

 

These wishes would come true and increase your health, happiness, and wellness.

What’s coming to mind?

Pause…

Think…

Breathe…

Reflect…

Got ‘em?

Good.

 

Now…

Do you “light up” when you think of your wishes?

Do you feel the possibilities?

Can you envision them?

Allow yourself to go there.

These wishes are your calling for change.

Hold onto them. Honor them. Hope for them. Every single day.

Let yourself move forward peacefully and at your own pace.

 

Enjoy the process.

Look at goals as experiments and as win/learns NOT win/loses.

Forgive yourself for not being wherever you think you should be.

Envision the possible.

Feel how your heart feels when you think of these wishes…let that be your daily reminder to keep going.

Focus on baby steps NOT leaps.

I use the 3-wish question ALL the time.

 

 

Whenever I feel lost or need focus, I always ask myself:

If a genie were to grant me 3 wishes in my life right now that would come true, what would I want them to be?

This gives me guidance, direction, focus. It shows what’s important to me in my life at the moment and allows me to refocus my energy on the areas of my life that I want to work on.

 

This question serves as reflection that can ignite action from within when you’re ready.

Without taking a step back and reflecting, it’s so easy to get lost in our thoughts and the not so simple pace of today.

I ask clients this question as well –a lot. Perhaps I need to see what’s most important to them right now; they need clarity; or we just want to spend some time playing in the realm of possible.

Because believing in the possible is the absolute 1st step to becoming your best healthiest happiest self. And funny thing is, it can all start with the power of a genie -;)

So….

If a genie granted you 3 wishes that would come true, what would they be?